Abuse Victim: Sobriety means I have not harbored anger, resentment, bitterness or unforgiveness for my abusers, nor have I used the actions of others as a justification for my inappropriate actions or attitudes or isolating myself from God or others.
Abuser: Sobriety means I have not verbally, physically, sexually or emotionally abused others or myself.
Anger: Sobriety means I have not lost my serenity, lashed out at others or harbored ill will towards others and/or myself, but have taken appropriate steps to forgive myself and others and to resolve conflicts.
Chemical Addiction: Sobriety means I have not consumed alcohol or drugs, except for appropriate use of over-the-counter medications or appropriate use ofmedications prescribed by a doctor.
Codependency: Sobriety means I have put my trust in God and have not actively sought to control or manipulate others, given unsolicited advice, or based my self-concept on the well-being or approval of others.
Depression: Sobriety means I have not given in to feelings of hopelessness, despondence or passivity in response to difficult or negative situations.
Grief: Sobriety means I have not stopped working through the grief process of denial, anger, bargaining, and acceptance. I ask for help when needed.
Guilt: Sobriety means I have not continued to feel guilt over past sins that I have already confessed and have made or am making amends.
Sexual Addiction: Sobriety means I have not actively sought out sexually explicit material in any form, nor have I acted to intentionally place myself in a position of temptation, but when confronted with temptation I did not yield but surrendered the incident to the Lord by praying for His power to resist or flee.